May
10
2012
Whatever I am willing and able to do … I do … unless, it does not feel good.
Our feelings are our guide; the communication from our Self/Consciousness … it is up to us to choose this Awareness, it is up to us to choose courage and follow through taking action according to our feelings, our Awareness.
This always works, except when we are overwhelmed or in denial/avoidance … in which case: STOP! And tune into underlying feelings before doing any more overwhelm, denial or avoidance!
Creating Awareness, brings us back into Present Time.
Marianne Thorne
Attitude Coach
www.CreativeGoalSetting.com
May
9
2012
Participation
Say “YES” … have a go whenever Intuition says “this feels good.”
When we know which Area of life we are focused on, Consciousness delivers accordingly … so, say “yes” and do it … take delivery, receive! This is the path to happiness as we have described in our Creative Goal Setting Programs. Otherwise it wouldn’t feel so good! Simple really.
We can adjust our settings, refine our choices, fine-tune our decisions while we are participating; but participate we must, so we can experience the happiness, and the progress of evolution. Participating is an ACTION that triggers the “Law of AttrACTION” … as all ACTIONS do. And our ACTIONS demonstrate what we willing to materialise (so take notice of your actions, change them if necessary)!
But what about all those times we went ahead with an idea, a relationship, a financial investment, a career path; all because it felt good at the time ~ but somehow it turned into a disaster?? I have found these to be evolutionary steps upon our journey; getting us to where we are today … older, wiser and more understanding of others!
With this empathy we can now make better choices as we let go any emotional attachment to the past and Allow our wisdom to shine through. For our own Sacred Selfish benefit! Oh, and we can continue to lead by positive example for others who wish to benefit too.
Let’s do a quick round of the Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) with a set up phrase something along the lines of: “Even though some of my decisions have turned out really bad, I deeply and completely love and accept myself.”
Marianne Thorne
Attitude Coach : )
www.CreativeGoalSetting.com
May
8
2012
We can use our awareness to understand:
- what we are experiencing,
- what we are “not seeing” (trying to avoid and/or resist), &
- how we feel about what we are experiencing.
When we experience something that does not feel good, we can use our Knowledge of the Mind (conscious, subconscious & Super Conscious/Consciousness) to know that the Flow of Consciousness (our Wellbeing) is currently blocked by an emotional attachment (often ‘hidden’ in the subconscious aspect of our Mind).
With this knowledge we can use our Intelligence (the conscious aspect of our Mind) to know NOW is a great time to release any emotional attachment; either fear of it, or ‘need’ for it. The “not good” or “yuck” feeling is enough to guide us to Awareness. Using the Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) puts us back into the Flow of Consciousness ~ with a set-up phrase like: “Even though I don’t feel good about this situation, I deeply and completely love and accept myself.”
And then using our Imagination (our conscious aspect again) we can choose to see a better outcome, in our “Mind’s Eye” … visualising a more joyful, satisfying, outcome (for the Highest Good of All Concerned ~ Consciousness takes care of this part for us).
We can use our understanding of the Law of AttrACTION to produce positive outcomes; to direct our Super Conscious/ Consciousness by communicating what we REALLY want, and then by Allowing it to materialise in our life by letting go emotional attachments to what is “not working” for us (including the emotional “need” for a certain outcome).
Both the Creative Goal Setting Program and the Emotional Freedom Technique use Awareness/Consciousness to work.
Marianne Thorne
Attitude Coach
www.CreativeGoalSetting.com
May
7
2012
Empathy wins over sympathy any day.
Empathy is the way to go. And Now is always a good time to educate our family & friends about empathy. That we are all stronger and more resilient around empathy as it validates who and what we are, and that how we are feeling is valuable. Whereas, sympathy is like pricking a balloon with a pin, it is emotionally deflating and spiritually demeaning.
So, when we feel the pin prick, tell/educate them about empathy … that we don’t need their ‘solutions’ or pity … as we are communicating our feelings so that we may be more enlightened/Aware of our feelings and able to change them when and if necessary. Our family and friends can LISTEN/Allow and Learn if they wish, joining us on Our journey to enlightenment!
Let them know we are on a journey of discovery, and intend to make the most of every minute, and that an integral part of this, is Knowing our truth, and that sometimes this involves sharing our feelings (with compassion) as felt in this moment.
Marianne Thorne
Attitude Coach
www.CreativeGoalSetting.com
May
6
2012
Telling our Truth, is granting a gift of freedom to our selves.
Holding onto (or holding back) our Truth because we are afraid of the tears or the pain ~ just hurts and goes nowhere (now here), still waiting for release.
Giving our Truth wings, expression; letting it fly and land where-ever it wants, is allowing it, Our Truth, to find its own Path. And Allowing another possible future.
Marianne Thorne
Attitude Coach : )
www.CreativeGoalSetting.com
May
5
2012
To communicate with empathy, is to open up to the global language of feelings.
A stepping stone to mental telepathy.
We can sense (receive) feelings from across a room (even with our eyes closed) and we can sense feelings from around the world (when “tuning in” and/or “sharing energy”).
We can transmit our feelings (and thoughts) to others who are open, aware and able to receive. As some of us can do this, then the potential is there for everyone.
I can do this, so I know you can too. Start by ‘Choosing’ this level of consciousness; choose to be aware and to use empathy in your communication. It is like learning to use Intuition; it involves the risk of trusting the belief that your Imagination/Intuition, and in this case the ‘voice you imagine you can hear in your mind (often belonging to someone you know) IS telling you something.
Marianne Thorne
Attitude Coach
www.CreativeGoalSetting.com
May
4
2012
Those of us with NO religious affiliation, nor emotional attachment to the New Age Movement, or any cult, or particular philosophy, are able to enjoy the Freedom of Passage available to ALL Conscious Beings to participate here on Planet Earth as we please. Conscious Beings Know their Spirit(uality) is Who they REALLY are, while those with ties to religion (cults, New Age beliefs, etc) can only enjoy their Freedom of Passage based on their chosen restrictions/limitations … enslavement to their, or another’s, ideas.
When We Know we are the One making Our rules, Our conditions, Our Freedom for Our self, We are FREE.
When we Know we are NOT making rules, conditions, or even Freedom, for others (for they are making their own), we are FREE.
When we Know that ALL we are Aware of through our Thoughts and Senses is of our own Creation, is our Self/Consciousness, we are FREE.
When we Know we ARE affecting/Creating our Reality in each and every moment AND we can comfortably Allow each and every moment … we are FREE … our Passage is Clear of any further distractions and only filled with abundant Opportunity. Simply because each and every situation and association is Allowed, Acknowledged and Observed with interest/Awareness, but no longer with emotional attachment.
And when emotional attachment does occur we can Allow, Acknowledge and Observe with interest/Awareness, as we release emotional attachment/reaction to whatever is seemingly ‘holding us up’ or ‘up-setting us’ and Progress beyond this moment. Producing a very different outcome to the “processing of lessons,” or meditating on Love/Consciousness, as adopted by the New Age Movement, or even the act of prayer used in religion).
Being Aware IS a Spiritual State (Mindset) also known as Consciousness; being Conscious. We can Observe emotional attachments and stay in Consciousness at the same time, it does not need to involve a fall from Grace/Consciousness to be human. Even though it is broadly rumoured that we have fallen from Grace/Consciousness, that we are “Sinners” in some way, … it does NOT have to make this so. We don’t have to believe this. We CAN choose Consciousness (being Conscious/Awake) over conditioning, over out-of-date beliefs; we can transform our Thinking and embrace our human-ness with Consciousness/Awareness and release any attachment to holding onto emotions and beliefs that no longer serve us.
I like to use the Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) Shortcut as designed by Gary Craig with a set-up phrase something like: ”Even though I can see I’m reacting and/or emotionally attached to this situation/association, I deeply and completely love and accept myself.”
And I keep on using my Creative Goal Setting Program to design what I REALLY want; Knowing “this or something better is NOW materialising for me, for the Highest Good of ALL concerned” without my need to micro-manage, control or even process!
Marianne Thorne
Attitude Coach
www.CreativeGoalsSetting.com
May
3
2012
Awareness of what we are REALLY asking for in our goals, our desires, our preferences and Distinctions is REALLY important in making Progress in experiencing our Sacred Self.
The opportunity for this Awareness is provided constantly and consistently as Universal Feedback in every moment! All that we are aware of IS of our making/creation … AND can be altered, transformed, transmuted, evolved, redesigned, etc, by Us. We are Spiritual Beings consisting of ever expanding Greatness and more Power than can ever be measured (as It is ever expanding).
When we switch out of the paradigm that we are a physical human separated from our Spirituality, and choose into the paradigm that we ARE Intelligent Creative Consciousness, able to create our human forms simply with Intention … we begin to Know our Self, our Sacred Self.
It is up to us to take advantage of the understanding that we are responsible for Creating our entire Reality … this includes everything and everyone and all that we perceive ‘them’ to be doing, being and having. ‘They’ are our Consciousness/Spirituality responding to our conscious and subconscious Creating … whether we are aware of this or not. ‘They’ are Us, we are One.
Being Aware of our Spirituality/Sacred Self/Consciousness provides our opportunities for becoming consciously competent at guiding, commanding and authorising, our Reality; our Consciousness in form.
Do this with compassion and understanding for our self, and all others in our Reality; as we and ‘they’ are also reflecting our doubts and fears as we revise, let go and Create, what we believe to be a Reality we want. Sometimes it takes a few attempts before we get/receive/allow what we REALLY want, and it is not ‘their’ fault that we are creating a few mistakes while learning what we REALLY want on our Way.♥
Marianne Thorne
Attitude Coach
www.CreativeGoalSetting.com
May
2
2012
Awareness and Truth
Seeking awareness, results in seeking.
Seeking truth, results in seeking.
Being aware, results in Awareness.
Being our truth, results in Truth.
Being aware again, results in new Awareness.
Being our truth again, results in our new Truth.
Being Aware of our Truth, results in a new progressive ‘feeling’ experience each and every time.
Marianne Thorne
Attitude Coach
www.CreativeGoalSetting.com
May
1
2012
“All of you are allowing through the crack of least resistance. So there are a combination of factors. The degree of desire is a factor. In other words, the amount of pulling power that’s going on is a factor. Someone could really, really, really, want something, and could really, really, really, be disallowing it — but because they want it intensely they get it, but it comes the hard way.”
— Abraham 2000
In the “disallowing” are all our conditions, decisions and the data collected by our 5 senses, and stored in our subconscious mind from our environmental ‘conditioning’ which continues on into adulthood (don’t for a minute think that it is only the first 5 or so years of a person’s life that forms their current behaviours and choices … although they are foundational).
We can continue to naively let this ‘conditioning’ (via advertising/marketing, media, religion, schooling, politics, etc) run our Reality on auto-pilot … which would keep a few wealthy families very happy in the short term as we continue to ‘pay’ for our existence. Continue Reading »