Many Opportunities (the upper case ‘O’ signifies consciously Created by our Higher Mind/Consciousness) slip on by while we are distracted. Yet, as we bring our selves back into “Present Time” ~ out of our emotional and/or intellectual distractions, we find ourselves in the ‘field’ of Opportunities again.
In Creative Goal Setting (CGS) we consciously Create Opportunities by both focusing on one of the Areas of Life that we ‘urgently’ want new Opportunities materialising (whether they be solutions or goals) AND by specifically turning distractions and/or upsets into Opportunities.
A distraction is any situation and/or association that does not feel good or yum, that no longer supports us and is therefore now an out-of-date belief or habit that we’d be better off without. With Awareness we can see the distractions in our life. With Creative Goal Setting we choose to write the positive opposite to the distraction into the relevant Area(s) of our Goal Folder, thus consciously re-programming our subconscious mind and Allowing for a new Reality/Opportunity, for the Highest Good of all concerned, to form.
An example: If we notice, become aware of, being distracted by our relationship status of being “single” we can write a positive opposite statement/Expectation into the Relationships Area of our CGS Program. Such as: I am now happily enjoying my ideal loving relationship with my partner, my best friend and confidant.
At the same time, I would add another “positive opposite” statement/Tangible Expectation in my Self Area to address the assumption (if there is one) that being single is wrong/lonely/upsetting in some way ~ such as “I am fully being who I really am regardless of my relationship status“. I would also deal with any other doubts and fears such as thinking that I am not good enough and therefore causing my ‘single’ status ~ with something like “I am confident my Individuality represents who I REALLY am“. I’d also add an ACTION (as a behavioural/attitudinal modification) statement in my list of Tangible Expectations along the lines of “I am now using EFT to demonstrate that I deeply and completely love and accept myself. This is using the second half of the Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) set up phrase, which I highly recommend using in combination with the CGS Program as another cognitive behavioural technique for Progressing our selves up the Emotional Tone Scale to Provide ourselves with a more sane perspective … sure beats ‘processing’ our past over and over again.
In this case we would be writing the Tangible Expectations in our Goal Folder AND EFTing them with set up phrases such as: “Even though I am afraid I am not good enough and therefore causing my single status, I deeply and completely love and accept myself.” And/or “Even though I am afraid I am not fully being who I really am without a good loving relationship to relate to, I deeply and completely love and accept myself.”
There will be Personal Values/feelings to add to each Area too, such as love, respect, high self esteem … the potential list is endless, so it needs to be OUR own words relevant to our current circumstances.
Creating Opportunities is a personal journey … be sure to enjoy it, make it fun and easy and take advantage of the “tools” found at www.CreativeGoalSetting.com! ♥