Dealing with our Reality is not about imposing our will, nor Our [Higher Self's] Will, onto another. Dealing with our Reality IS about Awareness ~ being in conversation with our Self, while Allowing and respecting the communication coming from this other aspect of our Self.
I was trained originally to “channel” “Healing” from a “power greater than I” into other people. My desire to help others had me doing this effectively, BUT would leave me feeling tired, drained, and feeling sorry for myself at the end of the day, week and/or month ~ while justifying in my mind that I was being of service as a “Healer”. This fitted with my conditioning that I had to have a job, work hard, earn money, etc.
I was often a bit put out that I could not always “heal” an issue either in myself or another. Truth is, “failure” left an empty feeling like something major had been missed. The missing link turned out to be AWARENESS of my participation, my PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY in the Creation of this “upset” found in another (in another aspect of Me).
To explain this, a few ideas need to come together. In a nutshell though:
We are all connected in Consciousness ~ in our Higher Mind where we also find the Creative Intelligence/Intelligent Creativity we use to Create/materialise our Reality and all those in it. It helps immensely when we choose to realise this is not “collective consciousness” ~ but simply Consciousness. Not group think, not agreed upon social/pseudo spiritual memes, in which we are conditioned to think we are all like individual cells of a “One Larger Spiritual Being” … a so-called “Power Greater than us”. No, we ARE the Greater Power.
This requires a significant paradigm shift and then persistent and consistent reprogramming to Shift to Understanding we are It. We as an Individual … an indivisible Duality (consciousness and Consciousness, self and Self, mind and Mind) … that this Duality is the ONE … we are the One … we are Oneness. We don’t need to feel “Oneness” or “Unity” with others to transform our entire Reality, but simply with our Self as an Individual! We can choose to feel these feelings in our personal experience, rather than assuming they are a group experience. We have more Personal Power when these feelings of Oneness are our INDIVIDUAL experience.
Hearing others in our Personal Reality insisting that our reality “needs” to be one of unity within a group doing some sort of collective consciousness, is our very own Universal Feedback telling us that maybe we are running our Reality on purposely mis-directed (dis)information. That we are not ‘listening’ to our Self; that we have fallen for the age old ruse … the one that has so many believing they “need” to seek authority from an external source. A ruse that has people subjected to a long long history of subjugation. How easy it is to be convinced of anything! Too easy! My recommendation: be Aware of the temptation to go along with distractions.
Of course it has occurred to me that I maybe simply trying to convince myself there is no god source/external power greater than I … but after 3 decades of “studying” this and Observing my Personal Universal/Reality feedback, I am feeling very comfortable with my decision to go with my Truth … rather than any religious dogma.
We are just as much Self/Consciousness Creating a physical experience, as we are self/conscious/ego hanging out with a physical body in a physical world designed and Created by our Self.
Our perception/view of life can be from both ego/self AND Higher Self/Consciousness; at the same time if we wish! The observer and the Observer.
ALL discomforts (including: ill health, hold ups, emotional blocks, distractions, bad relationships, arguments, etc) ARE the result of emotional attachments to something that no longer works for our understanding of Us; is no longer a Truth we are willing to live in denial and/or avoidance with. Even if it is happening in someone else’s life (on television, on the other side of the planet, where-ever). As we become Aware of something, we are becoming aware of another aspect of our Awareness. With this Understanding we can take Personal Responsibility for our relationship with anything apparently causing discomfort for us and DEAL with ‘it’.
As its our emotional attachment, we can choose to take Personal Responsibility for it, communicate with (listen and talk to) it, and ask questions of ‘it’ … all of which lead us back to our ability to Create and Transform our Reality.
This interpretation of our Universal (physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual) Feedback works in our Dual experience of consciousness and Consciousness. On both levels of Consciousness, and (if we wish) at the same time as we are Observing ‘it’ in motion, in Present Time.
We CAN live in, and/or embrace, a Transcendent “view” of our Reality, and own Our experience of our Transcendent Self … and not only OWN It, but BE It, and expand It’s Reality. We can participate in, AND manage, our own Spiritual Experience from either Our conscious state and/or our state of Consciousness.
All of this is an individual experience. We don’t need to lead other people to ‘It’ (if they are interested in seeing ‘It’ they’ll ask), but we cannot do for them what we have done for our self; choose to SEE life from more than one perspective.
We can cause Healing in others, by taking responsibility for them and their issue appearing in our Reality. And as we ALL have free will, it is up to the recipient to embrace the change offered. They are free to resist it, or change it back to match their consciously chosen reality ~ yet in our Reality it IS dealt with!
When it doesn’t Heal, as desired or expected, we have the opportunity to delve deeper into the Creative vortex, to undo/release more deeply entrenched beliefs and/or emotional attachments to aspects of our Reality that are no longer True for us.
We can do this Consciously = EFFORTLESSLY. While we are free of emotional attachment to the outcome, we are free to be our self and Self in fun and easy ways.
The outcomes touted by the new New Age (alternate) religion more or less ‘demand’ emotional attachment … manipulating people (in the same ways the older religions did) into believing in limited social memes based on externalised sources/gods (ie Mother Earth, extra terrestrial saviours, and ‘other’ dimensional “masters”); grouping people and setting them against each other in meaningless debates. There is no debate when we are simply being our Self and Allowing others to do the same. When we are being told “do it this way or else you will fail, feel pain, or not transcend” (the new age version of “heaven”) … we can smile to our Self and re-assert our Power of Creation in our own Reality. ♥
Marianne : )
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