Creative Goal Setting

Our Thoughts are Creating our Reality …

October 30, 2014
by Marianne
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113. Putting Sacred Self First

Thought 113All we need is to Know our very own desires, intentions, expectations, values, and goals to know how to make ourselves Feel comfortable; to experience contentment; AND be taking 100% Personal Responsibility for our own Reality at the same time.  In this way we can Feel our freedom of expression being acknowledged by our Self, an Inner experience, as the outcomes are being generated and granted by our Self/Consciousness to our self/consciousness.

Once we have this Mastered, we enjoy Creating for an expanded Consciousness.

It is a matter of being persistent, of continuing to choose to feel these feelings more often!  Actually using our Imagination for exactly what it is meant for … Conscious Creation.

Focusing on our good feelings (but not to the exclusion of all else, as many New Age Movement/Thought gurus and promoters would have you believe), expanding them, and repeating the experience of feeling what we REALLY want to feel … makes us feel good and improves our attitude, which in turn provides the possibilities for us to move on up the Emotional Tone Scale.  No need for expensive therapy, drugs, alcohol and other addictive substances/behaviours after all!

Once we are higher up the Emotional Tone Scale we cope with our Reality better and then Create better solutions … a better Reality.

Hence the great value of feeling Feelings!  Yet it is our Thoughts that remind us to do this and our Thoughts, the Thinking process, that chooses what feels good!  It is in our Mind that we ‘decide’ what feels “yum” or “yuck.”  Hence the importance of acknowledging both our thoughts and feelings.

People do not need a global thought/feeling consensus to Heal the World ~ although most of us would agree to living in comfort and enjoying freedom of expression ~ we don’t have to wait for, or expect, a unified agreement.  We can simply get on with Creating our own wonderful experience in our own Reality.  The only reason more people aren’t doing this yet is simply because they have been conditioned to believe in an external source providing all their answers and physical well being.  Sadly, their “external Source” has them doing nothing to help themselves; they are being entrained to be content with apathy, which is very low on the Emotional Tone Scale.  They’ve been “sold” a myth that continues to enslave them, keeps them “low tone” and in a helpless and hopeless state of being victims of their “state”; both their state of mind and their geographical/political state in which they are governed by someone else’s rules/laws.

Our individual Path of taking Personal Responsibility for Our own World, Our personal perspective of our Reality is the Key to Change.  But it does not matter if you don’t participate as life will continue much the same as it has been with plenty of others choosing to change (for better or worse) ~ resulting in change that we may or may not like!  Hmmmm … so, maybe it is best to take Personal Responsibility for what we REALLY want after all!

We are only connected to others via the decisions we make.  We can choose to disconnect and go our Individual Way if and when we want to.  We are only connected to others in our Mind in any manner we choose to uphold.

We are all made of the same Creative Intelligence/Intelligent Creative Force ~ AND we all have Free Will.  Therefore the myth that “as one person evolves, chooses Consciousness, they positively affect all those around them” … is only as good as those around them!  If the same people are actually still around them, then maybe they haven’t changed as much as they thought!!  Or the others are coincidently choosing to Create change along the same lines also.

I have noticed, over the years, as I have left a lot of people in my wake; both long term friends and brief acquaintances …that not many appear to have been affected by my decisions, to go with my Consciousness, at all!!!

But here is the amazing part … The people around us may not be physically living next door!!!  We are also connecting with others on a whole different level to the physical Reality … hence the Law of AttrACTION works on the emotional and mental planes … and even better on the Consciousness/Mind level when we are consciously using it.  Hence those we are effecting may be on the other side of the planet, but not necessarily members of our family or known community!!!

We just have to put our Sacred Self first and make decisions that suit our own Higher Good, and Trust that our intention for the Higher Good of all concerned be experienced, is enough.  If in doubt about choosing Consciousness over friends and neighbours, may I suggest using the Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) with set-up phrases such as these:

Even though I am afraid of taking the Path less travelled, of being on my own in this decision, I deeply and completely love and accept myself.

Even though I resist change from time to time, I deeply and completely love and accept myself.”

Even though I resist being assertive in asking for what I REALLY want from my Higher Self/Consciousness at times, I deeply and completely love and accept myself.” ♥

Marianne : )
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October 30, 2014
by Marianne
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30 October 2014

Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) and daily numerology combined for: 30 October 2014 ~

3 + 0    +    1 + 0    +    2 + 0 + 1 + 4 = (11)

{3}                 1                   7

3    –    1                   1   –   7

2                    –             6  =  [4]

“Even though I may need to Persist [4] at Doing, Being and Having that which I feel Inspired (11) to Create {3} — It will be worth it!  And I deeply and completely love and accept my Self!”   Progressing ♥

Marianne : )
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October 29, 2014
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112. Constructively Imagining

Thought 112Imagine you (and any minors in your care) are safe within a bubble of “white light” that acts as a filter allowing in only that which is good and right for you and yours.  Set this Thought/Image up once and for all, because as you Think it and Believe it, so It is. (It is not something that has to be replenished on a daily basis … unless you are still basing your thoughts, feelings and behaviour ~ Attitude ~ in ‘fear'; still dwelling on ideas that keep you low on the Emotional Tone Scale.)

There is much fear-porn in our media, social media, entertainment, music, computer games, etc … purposely.  This is something we can choose to Transcend to the point it is no longer affecting our ‘position’ on the Emotional Tone Scale.  Which is not to say it becomes invisible to us, but to say we become IMMUNE to it and much more Aware of the effects of it on our self and others when stuck lower down the Emotional Tone Scale.

Our Imagination is a Transcendent Aspect of our Consciousness.  It is not an emotion, therefore it can be used as Intelligence where-ever and whenever we want/need it to change our Reality.

When we are Aware of being our Consciousness, we ARE our Higher Self/Higher Mind creating this amazing experience of a physical life on this physical plane (among others) that we call Planet Earth.  WE are the Intelligent Creative Force that dictates our experience.

We have been experimenting with a type of spiritual amnesia and process of duality in which we have been experiencing both the “good” and the “bad”, the “aware” and the “ignorant” … and infinite other dualities.  And now we are Awakening (but only if we Decide to with the Actions to back up our Decision) with an Understanding of the Power of our Creativity and Intelligence, our Resources already available to us to materialise absolutely any outcome, whether it be good or bad (this is where having a conscience comes in handy).

There has been a Purpose to Our experience after all!

With Awareness, we SEE/experience what we are able to be, do and have. We see that we have Created.  Is it a World in which we feel manipulated?  Or are we manipulating simply to get what we want?  As we Wake Up, we discover needing to manipulate to get what we want is part of the past (but lingers as there are still others sleep-walking in their more limited experience of duality).

As we Awaken, we learn that taking Personal Responsibility for Our own Reality allows others their Reality as they would choose it too.  We (as our Higher Self/Mind/Consciousness) lead Our self (not others) by positive example, creating a Safe, Nurturing and Abundant existence.  Even if it is like an island in the sea of scarcity and fear experienced by so many others still unaware of their Duality, their Higher Self, their Consciousness.

As we feel comfortable again in our own Space, We start extending Happiness and Acceptance (“Love” if you prefer) to our community, yet this is still to create our Own Reality of Happiness (not for the sake of others) as we set goals for the improvement of our own Reality.  We are no longer afraid others can’t do this for themselves ~ We now know We do NOT need to push our beliefs, we do not need to “sell” our concept of “safety and abundance” … We can now safely allow others their own Path of self discovery.  Why?  Because when we set goals for others it has us sliding back down the Emotional Tone Scale again because it is out of Integrity to “control others”.

Setting our own personal boundaries, which we can communicate and demonstrate as being integral to our well-being, can cause some confusion when we expect others to respect these boundaries.  Setting our personal boundaries and respecting them is up to us.  If and when others do not respect our boundaries it is up to us to change, not expect them to.  Often this is the turning point for many of us as we are faced with the decision to “walk away” from those not respecting our boundaries or simply justify the disrespect, allowing it.  Sometimes we attempt to change the disrespectful person’s behaviour to suit our ‘needs’.  Sometimes it even works … temporarily.  But it is emotionally draining trying to live within the limits imposed.  Having said that, I do find that teaching our children to respect others is important.  It certainly helps in later communication with our offspring if we have been teaching them to respect our personal boundaries since when they are pre-verbal/toddlers.

It is emotionally freeing to Imagine a life without the need to constantly tell others how to treat us well.  Once we have established in our own Mind what this would look like, feel like and therefore be like, we are a step closer to demonstrating this to our selves. To taking the Action required to Create the Opportunity for our self respect to lead the way to Respectful relationships.  The more we choose to respect ourselves, the more we are likely to see others respecting us.  This may require having the courage and self respect to remove ourselves from disrespectful relationships first.  The Decision and Action lies with our self.  Just as feeling safe does.  Until we choose to feel safe, Create an environment in which we feel safe, we will continue to feel unsafe (for example).

Life is full of potential, it is up to us to Choose to use it … we can be Constructively using Our Imagination, Our Consciousness to Live, Love/Accept and Enjoy according to our ever expanding perceptions of Possibility.  And that is Enough ♥

Marianne : )
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October 29, 2014
by Marianne
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29 October 2014

Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) and daily numerology combined for: 29 October 2014 ~

2 + 9    +    1 + 0    +    2 + 0 + 1 + 4 = 19, 1 + 9 = 10, 1 + 0 = (1)

{11}                 1                   7

2    –    1                   1   –   7

1                    –             6  =  [5]

“I am all for Transformation [5] as long as it has me travelling my Higher {11} Way (1)!  And I deeply and completely love and accept my Self!”   Progressing ♥

Marianne : )
Numerology at www.CreativeGoalSetting.com
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October 28, 2014
by Marianne
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111. Seeing the Abundance

Thought 111Let go of yesterday’s fears, anxieties, and even “hopes” if they were based on an emotional reaction to fear of scarcity.

Move into SEEING Abundance.  Be courageous and choose the Abundant Path.  It is all in our perception, the way we CHOOSE to SEE the Resources surrounding and within us.  Look around AND feel It inside your self ~ there is an Abundance of health, Resources and Well Being (even if only in its seed form as it is in many cases) and focus on that instead of the “lack”, fear or pain associated with scarcity!

If you tell me, “But Marianne, I am sick, poor and/or depressed.”  I will sit with you and point out that you are also breathing with a beating heart, talking with a language that represents Our wealth of ideas that can change Reality.  That you have a consciousness that can be used to Create an awareness of a better feeling ‘place’, indicating that you DO have a life-line to your own well-being.  And I’d suggest we focus on those Aspects while releasing the need to focus on the detrimental aspects that are currently doing us more harm than good.

My role is simply to say:  USE IT; all of the Abundance you CAN Imagine, USE IT to increase your Awareness of continual Abundance.

The sooner we take Personal Responsibility for what we are choosing to see/perceive by doing, having and being in accordance to our Greater Good, the sooner we step into our Consciousness … our Oneness (where the Duality of self and Self meet on the same level of Understanding).  This leads to our Experience of the perfection of Our physical, emotional and mental Universe … and Our role in It. ♥

Marianne : )
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October 28, 2014
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28 October 2014

Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) and daily numerology combined for: 28 October 2014 ~

2 + 8    +    1 + 0    +    2 + 0 + 1 + 4 = 18, 1 + 8 = (9)

{1}                 1                   7

1    –    1                   1   –   7

0                    –             6  =  [6]

“It is my responsibility to Understand [6] the relationships in my Reality and how I can best navigate (9) my Way {1} with or without them, and I deeply and completely love and accept my Self!”   Progressing ♥

Marianne : )
Numerology at www.CreativeGoalSetting.com
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October 27, 2014
by Marianne
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110. Just Like Magic

Thought 110I absolutely LOVE the way our Reality/Consciousness Creates Solutions!

It is pure MAGIC.  I Ask … and my Consciousness delivers.  So simple.

OK, so it wasn’t always that simple.  Firstly, I needed to become Aware of this concept … over and above the ‘hard work’ stuff my parents, teachers and society were (and still are) all “buying” into.  Yet, if we sit and watch birds, ants, guinea pigs, cats, echidnas, (these are some of my Greatest Teachers!) going about their daily “chores” we start to notice some absolute Truths.

One of the most glaringly obvious Truths I have learnt from my tiny, furry, feathery, or spiny friends is that they don’t need to earn money, nor earn the right to eat.  That they either use their Intuition (as echidnas do), team work for Sharing (ants), and/or their ability to be in Present Time (birds) enjoying what each day produces weather and food-wise, and keep on doing what they most enjoy doing ~ relaxing and exploring (as guinea pigs and cats do).

And when they aren’t doing “chores”, like keeping their coats clean, they are relaxing, chatting, having fun and/or sleeping!

We humans can learn a lot from those around us.  I have this belief that as we release our fear of scarcity (economic scarcity being a requirement of the current “ponzi styled” financial system based on “fiat” money), and our emotional attachments to the products and services provided (for a financial fee) by multi-national companies and local businesses just so we will have “food”, shelter and entertainment, we will automatically “remember” how to care for and entertain our selves.  We would discover we CAN take Personal Responsibility for our own Reality.

Let’s use the Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) to regain our freedom, to bring back our Consciousness/Awareness of Abundance; and I’m not being all “New Agey” here … I am talking about experiencing a paradigm shift away from the financial system and economic scarcity model so diligently promoted by those actually benefiting from it, to actually SEEING the bountiful supply of resources available to us that we are all using to some degree on a daily basis!  There REALLY is more than enough for us to SHARE, but it will require some major attitudinal changes.  So, starting with our selves, using a set up phrase something like:  “Even though I had forgotten about the abundance surrounding me in plain view and bought into that old manipulative scarcity myth, I deeply & completely love and accept myself.”

Remember: what we choose to focus on, expands and materialises.  Some of us already see and “swim” or Float/Flow in Abundance ~ please come and join us ♥

Marianne : )
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PS: did you know that baby echidnas are called “puggles” ?!!
(Picture:  M McKelvey/P Rismiller)

October 27, 2014
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27 October 2014

Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) and daily numerology combined for: 27 October 2014 ~

2 + 7    +    1 + 0    +    2 + 0 + 1 + 4 = 17, 1 + 7 = (8)

{9}                 1                   7

9    –    1                   1   –   7

8                    –             6  =  [2]

“I always have the Support [2] to the degree I Allow it!  Now to Visualise {9} USING these Resources (8) of mine, and I deeply and completely love and accept my Self!”   Progressing ♥

Marianne : )
Numerology at www.CreativeGoalSetting.com
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October 26, 2014
by Marianne
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109. Ethically Choosing

Thought 109How to Enjoy making Choices:  Focus on what is good and wonderful in life and Allow yourself to enjoy these Areas of Life even more — expand the enjoyment.

When we focus, we put our Consciousness into an idea, the longer/more we do this the more the experience expands and materialises the Resources required for the desired outcome.  This is a double edged sword, in that when we focus on negatives without consciously creating a possible “positive opposite” … we just expand the negative experience.

In Creative Goal Setting (CGS) we use Awareness/Mindfulness for personal growth/development, this requires that we look at each Area of Life and see what is working for us, as well as what is not working or feeling good so for us.

Only using positive words/thinking/affirmations (especially when written by others) is like painting over the rust in a car … the rust will continue to spread under the paint.  We need to understand and be aware of what we REALLY want by UNDERSTANDING and applying our AWARENESS to what is currently happening in our Reality that we ‘don’t want’.  The opposite of this is avoidance, denial … even apathy.  Apathy leads nowhere creating nothing new.

In the process of making Progress, we only dwell on what has not been working us for a few seconds ~ there is no point in dwelling on the problem any longer than it takes to conjure up a positive opposite scenario; a possible solution. We simply look at it long enough to determine what the positive opposite of this would be for us personally.  We then write the positive opposite statement/vision (affirmation) in the appropriate Area of our Creative Goal Setting Program.  We Progress through the thought quickly and easily, not become stuck processing it.  We USE the negative thought, feeling, experience, not allow it to use us!

For example.  I have been raised in a culture that insists that life is serious/hard and difficult.  Many years ago I wrote in my CGS Program that “life is fun and/or easy“.  Not only has this become my personal truth, but also my benchmark.  Whenever something appears to be not fun and/or easy, I stop, re-assess and change direction.  I release my emotional attachment to what is causing the difficulty and/or grief and turn the situation/association back into a fun and easy experience, or walk away from it.  I choose to focus my attention on ideas and activities that ARE fun and/or easy while also being Constructive and/or beneficial for my well-being.  For those of you wondering … housework & bookkeeping fit into the category of “easy” : )

When we see issues outside of our immediate reality, ie a global economic crisis or threat of war … we can choose to become aware of how we are thinking about it, then look immediately for possible positive opposites to focus our attention on.  In other words, we can always automatically look for PERSONAL possible solutions based on the Universal Feedback we are receiving.  We are never limited to the mass consciousness, the herd mentality … we can always approach even global events as an Individual and CHOOSE our Individual Attitude (thoughts, feelings and behaviours).

We don’t have to try to fix the World, just our Reality of it (if indeed it needs fixing); our Attitude toward it.  We can use our Awareness to do ACTIONS (the opposite to apathy/denial/avoidance) that will keep our body safe and well … not from fear, but from acceptance, respect and Awareness, and the desire to be here, not escaping/”ascending” to ‘heaven’ or another imaginary dimension.

If we are aware that there is likely to be an economic crisis, then we can use the resources that we already have, including our Thoughts, to Prepare ourself for a fun and easy journey … regardless of what is going on for others.

This is not selfishness, this is Sacred Selfishness ~ the art of taking personal responsibility for our Reality.  As we master this we can expand on it and support those around us with all that we are materialising, with the intention that it be for a Higher Good of all those concerned.  Providing we are not setting goals for others it works exceptionally well as we have no emotional attachments to specific outcomes.  Quite the opposite experience to being governed or having to join the “collective consciousness” groupies.

We can use our Imagination to day-dream of what we think would be a better outcome for our SELF.  We do not need to focus on the details of how it’ll materialise, just on a possible outcome, which we can evolve as we learn more.  Sooner or later, we see evidence of a possible solution materialising in our Reality.  Like, my personal favourite day dream:  Sharing more and more with others who are also becoming more aware of the Abundance we DO HAVE as we Share produce, skills and resources [instead of believing in and relying on a global financial infrastructure for our basic well-being].  Why? … simply because I have chosen to Imagine AND DO this and will therefore be drawing into my Reality other like-minded folk.

But I must remind you, the Thinking/Dreaming/Imagining is only the first step!  The next VERY IMPORTANT step is DOING the Actions as Inspired!  Ignoring the Inspired Actions ends in ‘no change’, existing without Direction; floating  in a boat without a rudder … reliant on existing paradigms and systems in a state of apathy.

Another of my Dreams:  meeting others with the same style of Thinking, Dreaming and Doing into my Reality by BEING, DOING and HAVING this style of thinking, dreaming and doing myself!  This is something I can take personal responsibility for without setting goals for other people; thus keeping myself in ethics without trying to control the outcomes of others ~ important in the ‘World’ of Emotional Freedom! ♥

Marianne : )
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October 26, 2014
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26 October 2014

Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) and daily numerology combined for: 26 October 2014 ~

2 + 6    +    1 + 0    +    2 + 0 + 1 + 4 = 16, 1 + 6 = (7)

{8}                 1                   7

8    –    1                   1   –   7

7                    –             6  =  [1]

“I always have the Resources {8} to Begin at the Beginning [1] of my next breath to actively Feel my Feelings and consciously Think my Thoughts (7), and I deeply and completely love and accept my Self!”   Progressing ♥

Marianne : )
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